What is the difference between a hand job and lingam massage?
Tantra and sexuality
The place of sexuality in Tantra is generally misunderstood and, in the minds of many people, is most often oversized. This repels some who imagine Tantra as an ancient practice hidden behind an exotic-spiritual mask. It attracts others, unfortunately not always for good reasons.
Tantra is a path of knowledge and self-realization that offers us different techniques to achieve inner peace, through knowledge and self-acceptance, through experimentation, daring to feel what passes through us. And Tantra massage is one of this techniques.
The wand of light
Lingam is the word used in Sanskrit to define the penis, and can be translated as “wand of light.” At a professional Tantra massage salon, a lingam massage is performed with love and respect. Totally different from an average hand job, the lingam massage involves not only massaging and stroking the penis but can also incorporate more advanced techniques, including the testicles, perineum, and the sacred spot (the prostate) as well.
Professional masseuses perform a lingam massage as a practice that truly honors a man. In a man’s lingam there is a huge amount of sexual energy, the penis contains the most masculine essence concentrated in one place. The masseuse, specialized in the art of Tantra, knows how to stimulate and circulate this powerful energy.
A lingam massage is not about having one orgasm and being done. A lingam massage is different than a hand job. A lingam massage is about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage.
During the lingam massage session, the experienced masseuse will help you get comfortable, teach you how to breathe deeply and gain a profound relaxation. The penis is lubricated with an organic oil and massaged all around. Testicles are included too. You can feel gentle, slow touches over the testicles, fingernails that pull them slightly. The masseuse will carefully massage the testicles, hold them in her hands, cup them and fondle them in her palm. All the area around the testicles and penis is massaged.
The shaft is massaged. The grip can vary from harder to lighter, the stroke sequences vary between straight up and down and a twisting motion. The oil helps create a smoother, gliding motion. The speed vary from slow to fast, it starts slowly and grows to a faster pace, then back to a slow speed again. The masseuse alternates the speed, the rhythm, the pressure, the methods. One hand to two hands, variety is the key here. She keeps you at the edge of climax, reminding you to breathe deeply and ride the wave of orgasmic feelings that you are experiencing.
Purpose of lingam massage
The purpose of the lingam massage is not to lead to a compulsive orgasm, nor to release the sperm fluid by ejaculation. On the contrary, the lingam massage will awaken multiple sensations of pleasure which can allow to have several internal orgasms and allow the spiritual energy to awake and rise to the heart and even to the top of the head.