Lingam in sanscrit language means „ wand of light” and is the word used in Tantra tradition to define the male organ, the penis. The lingam is something viewed as a sacred part of a man’s body, that channels creative energy and pleasure. The lingam massage is meant to teach how to relax the intimate area and also, it allows man to get in touch with his softer, receptive side and to feel pleasure from a non-traditional perspective. The real purpose of this type of massage is the massage itself, which includes the perineum, testicle and the sacred spot areas. As an effect, it allows man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not have experienced before.
Mainly, the massage begins with the area around the lingam, by unblocking any stress that may be stocked. After, begins the massage of the testicles, which are said to be the correspondent of the female ovaries. Here all the emotions of the man are collected and during this kind of massage all the stresses are released and eliminated. After all of the area around is massaged, the one who performs the massage will softly start pressing the lingam from bottom to the head and then backwards, from head to bottom. In Tantra it is clearly specified that there are many nerve endings on the surface of the lingam that correspond to internal organs, like acupressure on feet or hands. For example, the head of the lingam corresponds to the heart organ as you can see in the picture below:
The massage continues softly with the scrotum, the pubic bone, the perineum, the area between the testicles and anus.
The most important attitude of the one that performs the massage is to take all the necessary time, never to hurry and for her to be relaxed and in a high state of spirit, willing to help and to give.
The most important attitude of the receiver, the one massaged is losing the idea that he HAS TO ejaculate to get an orgasm, the confusion that orgasm and ejaculation are the same thing, when actually they are not, he HAS TO have a continuous errection and, in the end, all he HAS TO do is relax and abandon himself in the moment, or to be the way he is and let the one massaging him do her best.
It is good to know that all the girls are trained for this kind of massage and that they can teach you though different methods about the art of ejaculatory mastery and control by breathing, etc.
This kind of mastery has hundreds of benefits but most of all it will allow you to make love for as long as you want and become multi-orgasmic without losing a drop of semen. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different responses that can be differentiated. The result is a very expanded sex life and also expanded happiness and joy.